Pillow Talk

It's an addiction.  There's something different about cuddling with your significant other at the end of a long day and sharing your most intimate thoughts.  It's ground breaking.  Pillows allow you to be vulnerable.  They cause you to open up.  There's a comfort within them that allows you to let your guard down.  I wouldn't trade pillow talk for anything in the world.  Even sex.

Bringing me to my next point: sex.  Sex these days is so... abused.  It's used to mask feelings that you're afraid of.  It's when the innocence of sex turns into solid love-making that you get scared.  That's different.  That's something you  have to hold on to.  You can't mess it up.  One wrong move and it dissipates.

You know what separates sex from love-making?  Pillow talk.

It's such an indispensable foundation to every relationship.  You have to be able to separate yourself from your sinful desires to hold one another for hours on end; copulating in pure conversation versus physical contact.  That's what -true- intimacy is.  It's the ability to talk with someone without any barriers.  That's when you know that what you have is real.  It's solid.  It's something that came about (maybe by accident, but maybe not) and, I can't stress this enough, you have to cherish it.  You have to love like you never have before.  You have to be vulnerable and let another's vulnerability captivate you.

Pillow talk is organic.  It's when things start being real.  Infallible trust is created more often during pillow talk than in any other aspect of a relationship.  Pillow talk leads to relationships that can withstand anything.  You learn about one another.  You get to know someone else's soul.  That, by far, is what intimacy is.  Take it and hold it near to your heart.


And ladies:  if a guy engages in pillow talk with you that lasts for hours on end, don't let it go.  Keep it.  Do everything you can to cradle that love in your arms like an infant.  Nurture it and keep it sacred.  You'll never get it back if you don't.